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The Secrets to Preserving Southern Racism

Sharing the Secrets of Preserving Southern Racism

I have just finished reading The Letter I Never Sent Harper Lee . In this “letter” the author compares the racism of the 1930’s with that of today and says it is no different. I am outraged that a Ohioan who claims Birmingham, Alabama is her home is so cold and heartless in her writing about our state. It’s because of people like this that we cannot overcome the narrow-mindedness that we are all a bunch of redneck, trailer-park-living, prejudice, rebel-flag-waving bigots. Here is the first sentence in the “letter that should never have been sent anywhere” that got my blood boiling. It is addressed to Harper Lee:

The Maycomb County of ‘To Kill a Mockingbird‘ is hardly worse than the South of today.

Really? The south of today is just as prejudice, just as racist as the south was during the 1930’s? Do we still drink from separate water fountains? Are the schools still segregated? Do African-Americans still ride in the back of the bus? Is “yes ma’am and no sir” still required when addressing white people? Do we not have institutes and museums in the city of Birmingham to remind us of the atrocities of our past so that we will never commit them again? Have diverse people worked side by side in offices and factories across the south for decades?

Racists in Alabama Today

The attack on our progress continues with this statement:

“Racism is systematically ingrained in the South, so there are just as many racists today as there have ever been, though they don’t always wear white sheets or carry water hoses or hold the leashes of thrashing dogs.”

We will NEVER live down the fire hoses and police dogs. The pictures on the news from those days are forever “ingrained” in people who are prejudiced against the south. The condo where I live is mere steps away from where people were humiliated, persecuted and 1,000’s were jailed. The fire hoses and police dogs are an embarrassment to me and the city of Birmingham. But, I would argue that without those fateful spring days in 1963, the civil rights movement would never have gotten the national attention it needed.

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The Embarrassment Reigns

Birminghamians would love for the embarrassment to fade and the memory to preserve the progress we’ve made. However, with writers like this who claim their hometown is Birmingham, but write spiteful, hateful words against us, I’m afraid the embarrassment reigns. If I could whisper anything to the rest of the world about that period in our history, it would be, “Don’t look!” Yet, this article seems eager to keep racism alive.

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Our city and state have come so far since the civil rights movement began. Today in Alabama, white southerners are humiliated by those actions. We cringe at the thought of church bombs and grieve over the death of little girls caught in a shameful cultural war. WE KNOW IT WAS WRONG!  And, most black people today no longer hold grudges against things done in previous decades. There may be a few radical whites who truly wish things would go back to the way they were before civil rights, but not the majority! And most people know that southerners of today are no more responsible for what Bull Conner did over 50 years ago than the military children of Tiananmen Square are responsible for that massacre.

Alabama-Born Doesn’t Make You a Racist by Default

We are not perfect and yes, there are still racists living in Alabama. However, if you polled residents in Columbus, OH and Birmingham, AL on their thoughts about racism, you’d find it’s pretty much the same. But outside of our cities, the general idea across this nation, is that the prejudice remains. Most outsiders would assume that Ohio is less prejudice than Alabama, because of people who continue to spotlight the horrors of our past. Another quote from the letter:

The first time I read ‘Mockingbird’ as a ten-year old you [Harper Lee] showed me that being from Alabama doesn’t make you a racist by default. You showed me that it’s possible to practice Southern hospitality even towards people who don’t look like me. You showed me what abiding by a moral code really looks like, which was more than any church pew could ever do.

This author wouldn’t know southern hospitality if it was spoon-fed her in a high chair. I know for a fact that she never sat in the same church pew I did. My church pews seated all races.  All colors raised their hands together in worship of a God much more perfect and merciful than Atticus.

Books that Brought Change

I believe that books like “To Kill a Mockingbird,” “The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn,” “A Time to Kill,”  “The Help” and the movie “Mississippi Burning” were instrumental in bringing the injustice of prejudice to light. Those books brought about change. This letter suggests that southern beliefs of the past are still practiced today. This letter is only instrumental in keeping the same old prejudices in place. The south will always be in a perpetual hamster wheel of racism with people continuing to spew misconceptions about southerners.

Here are just a few more quotes from the letter:

  • And despite how uncomfortable I have at times felt when doing these things, it is infinitely better than being spoon fed the hatred that so many Southerners endure to espouse.
  • The truth is that these embittered Southerners are generally never as sweet as the tea they drink because they are as broken in spirit as the tornado-swept trailers they inhabit.
  • You were there on the days I questioned the gap between “bless your heart” and having a heart. You were there when I questioned how it was possible to have a reputation for Southern hospitality when the South was so damn inhospitable.

Tornado-Swept Trailers

To all of this my reply is this. I do not know a single person who “endures to espouse” hatred of any sort.

Moving Past Racism

Those who are broken in spirit may not live in “tornado-swept trailers.” But, even if they do, someone visited them. Someone left them a casserole, a gallon of sweet tea, new housing options after the tornado and a word of encouragement. That is the south of today.

In To Kill a Mockingbird, the lesson Scout learned was how to walk in another person’s shoes. I would offer that the author of this letter has forgotten how to walk in a southerner’s shoes. While she may picture us as embittered, racist, inhospitable people, we still welcome outsiders to our towns with open arms. That’s why they keep moving down here!

So here’s how to preserve racism in the south:

  • Breed prejudice against southerners.
  • Keep bringing up the embarrassment of fire hoses and police dogs.
  • Claim Birmingham as your hometown and then write negatively about the south while you live in Ohio.
  • Compare the racism of the 1930’s with the south of today and say they are the same.
  • Attack southern ways and manners while being rude and insensitive to the progress of today.
  • Insinuate that all southerners live in trailer parks while insulting those who do.
  • Accuse Christians of being more racist than fictional characters in a book.
  • Insult every citizen in the state of Alabama with accusations of racism.

And if the south is so damn inhospitable, I offer this quote from Benjamin Franklin. “Guest, like fish begin to smell after 3 days.”  We will understand if you can’t stay too long…. Sorry if there aren’t any confetti or streamers the next time you come “home.”

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    Judy Pimperl

    July 13, 2016 at 5:55 pm

    Good post, Kim. I don’t know what it’s going to take for everyone to just get along. God help us.

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    Nolan White

    June 29, 2016 at 8:36 pm

    I’m confused by people who jokingly use racist remarks, as if perverse humor is acceptable in a private setting. These same people have so-called black friends who would not take kindly to such lame attempts at humor. However, I’m too optimistic to believe that most Southerners as a group are racists.

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    June 28, 2016 at 5:36 pm

    The misunderstanding is both incredible and unfortunate. We have taken many steps backwards under the current administration, racism is more rampant than ever. If we are ever going to move forward, everyone has to loose their attitudes, bury the past and embrace the future. I appreciate you speaking out honestly and defending our state!

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    Erica Bunker

    June 24, 2016 at 8:31 am

    Mandy was speaking the truth! I’m born and bred Alabamian. Raised in Birmingham, educated through the Birmingham City Schools, and currently residing in Hoover for the last 21 years.

    Your examples of racism from the days of Eugene “Bull’ Connor are of the extreme nature. Even though Birmingham has transformed to a jewel of progression in the last 35 years, there’s still the rest of the state and the rest of the south. The parts that my black self wouldn’t stop in at night, even in 2016!

    Here in the Birmingham Metro Area, racism isn’t white sheet wearers or burning crosses in your yard. It comes in the form as racist comments on AL.com. Microaggressions in the workplace and in the classrooms is the most common form of racism.

    And my most favorite racist statement: “I don’t see color.”

    And when you turn a blind eye and act like Alabama and the rest if the south isn’t racist, well… I’ll just leave this here…

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        Erica Bunker

        June 24, 2016 at 9:04 am

        Oh, you mean you live in the area that provided that xenophobic racist Donald Trump with that huge turnout? Oh… OK.

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            Nolan White

            June 29, 2016 at 8:44 pm

            Reliable sources say the turnout was closer to 17,000. It’s typical of Trump to embellish the facts. On other issues, I can’t fathom why he says the most outrageous things and resorts to superlatives instead of establishing a cohesive platform.

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